We spend a lifetime searching for something that doesn’t exist: perfect people. We look for flawless partners, ideal leaders, and spotless saints. The hard truth is that such people are nowhere to be found in this world, because everyone is walking their own path, burdened by imperfection.
Embracing Eternal Imperfection
This “imperfection” isn’t a mistake; it’s part of the very structure of existence. It wasn’t created by someone to punish you; it simply is.
All your complex feelings, vivid emotions, and driving motivations arise because the vast process of existence requires it. It’s nothing personal—it’s merely cause and effect.
The key to liberation is not trying to stop this process or to run away from it.
The Great Discovery
You only need to do one essential thing: Know that in this process, there is no personal center that you think you are.
The idea that there is a fixed “you” controlling everything is the core illusion. When you reveal the truth that the personal “I” is not the center of control, everything shifts.
The day that happens, you will not try to escape from this present.
No matter how difficult or flawed this present moment may be, you will effortlessly transform yourself to a level where you can accept all those natures—the light and the shadow, the good and the bad.
The End of the Fighter
In the end, nothing external will change, but your inner fighter will disappear.
That constant struggle, that resistance against reality, that yearning for things to be different—it all vanishes. The inner fighter, exhausted from its perpetual war against the inevitable, will finally be free.
A person who has reached this state has surrendered to this whole process. They are free from the unnecessary controlover themselves and others. Whatever their inner moods or emotions may be, they deal with them wisely, without resistance or judgment.
True peace isn’t found in becoming perfect; it’s found in realizing that you never needed to be.
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